In this 25-article series, I share my life’s story, almost all of it, from age 5 through to 50 – I tell of the good, the bad and the ugly because it is what it is.
My Introduction to It is What it Is
My Introduction to "It is What it Is" On the 13th of August 2015 I turned 50. I celebrated my 50th birthday exactly where I’d [...]
You Can’t Choose Your family | 1
You Can't Choose Your Family, Can You? Over the past 7 years Chris and I have studied with some of the greatest teachers in [...]
Nature or Nurture | 2
In terms of your upbringing Is it Nature or Nurture that wins the race? “Needs are imposed by nature. Your dreams can be soiled [...]
Bringing Up Douglas | 3
No child should take on a parental role at not quite 8 years old, but here I was, bringing up Douglas Douglas John Pritty [...]
My Enabling Behaviours | 4
How I was programmed in my childhood drove my destructive enabling behaviours The collapse of my family structure began after my divorce, and after [...]
The Art of Betrayal | 5
When mastering The Art of Betrayal know this, that when you betray somebody else, you also betray yourself. Bar a few years when my [...]
Love Them Anyway | 6
Love Them Anyway, Even If You Don’t Get On With Them It was only when I was in my late forties that I had [...]
The Real Law of Attraction | 7
It’s very apt that The Law of Attraction is very prevalent in the Love Realm. There are two things that you need to know about [...]
An Old Man’s Sweetheart | 8
I rather be an Old Man's Sweetheart, than a Young Man's fool About 6 months after my divorce, I had my shortest relationship ever, [...]
Keeping Up Appearances | 9
Things may have been unpleasant but I was Keeping Up Appearances I was never one for clean endings, I never had that “Cruel to [...]
Love in All the Wrong Places | 10
"Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places" - Johnny Lee If you’re reading this in order then you’ll know that I have made [...]
A Young Man’s Fool | 11
They say there is no fool like an old fool, but for women that is not quite true. For women, there is no fool [...]
Our Story – In the Beginning | 12
In the beginning I met Chris through my media business; whilst working for the bank he booked one of our biggest activation campaigns ever. [...]
Our Story – More to Life | 13
There is more to life than we ever choose to experience Chris and I knew that there had to be more to life, and [...]
Our Story – Starting Over | 14
It'll be Just Like Starting Over - John Lennon We closed everything down December 2011 saw Chris and I close the Beautiful lifestyle centre [...]
Do Whatever it takes to keep learning and growing | 15
Keep learning and growing - If you don’t have a formal education, get a self-education We are moving into the work and business arena [...]
Be a Great Employee | 16
Be a Great Employee – Love Every Job You Have, Even if You are In a Dead End Job I was so excited at [...]
Be Prepared for When Opportunity Knocks | 17
When Opportunity Knocks I am writing this segment in the context of my Work Realm and I will be making reference to the positive [...]
Building a Media Business | 18
Building an all woman media business Starting Airport Media was a scary, thrilling and exciting time. Even though I had saved a large sum [...]
It’s what you dont know | 19
When you don’t know, what you don't know, you’re in trouble Help people who have a money conscience This work and business story highlights [...]
Poor Girl Rich Girl Poor Girl |20
Riches and Poverty are both the offspring of Thoughts I was the poor girl-rich girl-poor girl! The lack of, or having money may have [...]
Just Love Your Body | 21
“Just love your body” they say. Really? Do you know who I AM? I have always had a huge problem with my body and [...]
I was fat because my mother told me so | 22
I was fat because my mother told me over and over again that I was fat As you know from Just Love Your Body, [...]
There are Givers and Takers | 23
If the act of Giving doesn’t make you feel good, then don’t give! Yes there are Givers and Takers in this world, and even [...]
So this is who I am | 24
"So this is who I am, And this is all I know, And I must choose to live, For all that I can give, [...]
I Speak because I can | 25
There are many times when I felt that I had no voice, so today I speak because I can! When I sat down to [...]
So It is What it Is | 26
So it is what it is, learn from it what it is that you are supposed to learn, and let it go It is [...]
Menopause and Its Effects on Women’s Self-Confidence
Navigating the Change with Grace and Support Menopause is a significant phase in every woman's life, marking the end of reproductive years. It [...]
Rekindling Desire and Connection
Loss of, or lower sex drive This is a deeply personal yet surprisingly common challenge many individuals face, particularly during life transitions like [...]
Recreating Your Personal Reality
Life is a canvas on which we paint our experiences, beliefs, and emotions. For many of us, the emerging picture is often dictated [...]
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